Make it a Habit. Start NOW.
First I want to say that I know this is easier said than done but just keep in mind that if you can add this to your list of habits then your entire outlook on life is susceptible to change. I really invite you to take this on because it will assist you in achieving a Positive Mental Attitude and stomping over obstacles that once were road blocks to your Success.
Focus on the Solution NOT the problem
When something bad happens in your life it is very easy to dwell on the problem and become overwhelmed by it but that is not the path you want to follow. It may be difficult to see at first because your mind is so preoccupied on the negative but you have to look for the good that resulted from whatever situation you are dealing with and try to focus more of your energy on that. Yes this is challenging but it has to be done unless beating yourself up and depression is what you prefer to get out of life. Trust me, I’ve done my fair share of that and let me tell you right now, IT SUCKS.
You must have faith that your situation will get better and whatever issue you are going through is just something that God put in your way to make you a stronger human being. Maintain that belief that God is on your side supporting you and it will make it easier to rise above and see the light through even the darkest of tunnels. In the event that you can’t come up with some good that resulted, feel free to contact me and I would be happy to offer my advice to help you out. At the same time, if that is something that is troubling you then you need to concentrate on how you are going to fix/remedy the problem. Channel all of your energy into making things better not complaining and crying about how messed up everything is. You want to be moving forward in life not chilling at a standstill. Make sure you are constantly working to progress yourself and improve your predicament.
This takes Practice
In closing I want to say this is something that I myself battle with when the odds appear to not be in my favor so I don’t want you reading this thinking I’m some guru or that this is an easy task. God Bless your soul if it is for you. This mindset takes practice and determination to attain but the reward is Priceless. We all encounter Bulls*** in our lives but modifying how you deal with it will Drastically improve your quality of life. I wish you all the best and good luck fighting that negativity that lurks within all of us.
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Thanks.
Nicholas Agaba.
Online Mentor - QNET IR
